If you have ADHD it is kinda likely that you procrastinate. Some of your friends might say it is one of your defining characteristics. I have to admit, it is not my favorite of the ADHD traits. Procrastination is responsible for a wide array of heartbreaking situations. Despite not loving the topic, it is absolutely worth us talking about for a few minutes here.
Too much time is spent agonizing over WHY we wait. The collective we (you, me, our friends and community) have given wayyyy too much weight and meaning to why we avoid certain things to the extent that we do. There is a swirl of accusatory answers to why we wait that could include: self sabotage, not caring, not trying, wanting to fail, hating success, being stupid, etc. These labels are not helpful or true. There is a swirl of accusatory answers to why we wait that could include: self sabotage, not caring, not trying, wanting to fail, hating success, being stupid, etc. These labels are not helpful or true.
Let me put the shame, blame and agony to rest right now. Here is the answer to why we wait: Find Out Why